Not knowing how to deal with certain situations is one of the most difficult challenges I have ever been forced to overcome. Making decisions that are not only hard on me but also hurt the ones I care about. I’m always wondering if what I decide is the best decision. I’ve always been told to follow my dreams and my heart, but what if they’re going in different directions? Which one is more important? What if the right choice is the one that I decided not to take? Can I make up for it in the future? Will I have a chance to fix what I broke?
Questions arise constantly forcing my mind to be stuck on a subject that could change the rest of my life. My life is very simple for the most part, no arguing, no fighting, no drama. I’m always positive and extremely optimistic. Grateful for the life I was given, and proud of the life I made for myself. I never know how things are going to turn out. If I did I’m sure I would be working side by side with Ms. Cleo. But I let life take its course dealing with it as the situation occurs. But in the back of my mind I wonder if it would be easier to deal with If I were to prepare for these events before hand.
“Only time will tell.” A famous quote that everyone has heard at some point in their life. So far time has told me that I can get through, conquer, and excel over any obstacle life can throw at me. Sometimes I look forward to what I might be faced with in the future. Good or bad, I learn all I can and move on. But sometimes I’m faced with challenges that I don’t know how to deal with. Some things can break the strongest people down to a mind state they have never explored. This is possibly one of the hardest moments in life.
Why does life have to take unexpected turns at the most random times? Why are some things so difficult to figure out? Some things Google can’t even answer. Only way to learn is to experience it first hand. There are always helpful people to help talk you through your tough times, sharing wisdom and knowledge that only comes from their personal experience.
But when you can make the best of a life experience, it makes you feel extraordinary! Nothing feels better, knowing even through the tough times people will stay by your side. They will give you the confidence and desire to continue to make the most out of life. And I know, in my past, I have said they it doesn’t matter what other people think, or feel. But after being put in the position, I can honestly say, peoples opinions do matter. The people that care the most will give you advice to assist you in the next chapter of your life.
So just because you are having a tough day, week, month… keep your head up. Learn from what is happening, make improvements, and look forward to your next challenge.
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